Handfasting is an ancient pagan, Celtic and Gypsy custom that involves two lovers making their vows together and celebrating their union.

It is different in so far as marriage in that the lovers are only making a commitment for a year and a day.

13 lunar months plus one day 365 days.

After this time the couple are free to renegotiate the relationship with one another and can either continue there relationship or talk about what needs to be addressed to resolve issues.

If things haven’t worked out for the best, then they are free walk their separate ways.

The handfasting ceremony can be tailor made to suit your own requirements and does not follow any rigid doctrine.

For example some people choose to use a ribbon that all of their witnesses have signed. This is then tied around the wrist of the two people making there union and sanctifies there commitment.

There can be an exchange of rings.

A special door made of flowers can be used for the lovers to jump through together, signifying the start of a new life together.

A labyrinth can be used as a focal point for the ceremony, the lovers can walk into the labyrinth together, embrace in the centre, and then return united as one.

There are many ways to go about handfasting, but a necessary part is to have a priestess or priest giving or both giving a heart felt blessing to the couple.

A handfasting is not a legally binding contract, so it is therefore suitable for couples who feel that their relationship has nothing to do with the state or the Law or the church.

We can offer advice and a handfasting service,
please contact: services@theantiquariansociety.com